HOW TO REALLY LOVE

When we lose the motivation to love, we become critical of others…
we see faults and focus on shortcomings rather than strengths….
 ~Dr. Charles Stanley

To love as commanded in the Word of God is a choice and something we must put into practice continually. But sometimes we lose our motivation to love.  

Do you notice that when we do, we are not as patient with others. We let their mistakes bother us.  We focus on what we don’t like about them rather than their good qualities. We may become critical and unkind.  And, we may lose our peace and joy.

We can get pretty hard on ourselves too if we don’t put God’s principles of love into practice. Ultimately, that hurts our self-confidence and ability to love others.

The good news is: we have God’s love inside of us, and we have all we will ever need to love ourselves and others.  The challenge is letting God’s love work in us and flow through us.  The next time you notice your motivation to love waning….

TRY THIS:
 

* When you begin to feel critical of someone, make a list of that
    person’s positive qualities. 

 * When you begin to feel critical of yourself, make a list of your
    strengths. 

 * Give God thanks for the positive qualities and strengths you
    have identified.  

 * Whenever a critical thought comes to your mind, replace it
    with something on your list.  

 * Look for the good and focus on the best, not the worst; the
   beautiful, not the ugly; strengths, not weaknesses; things to 
   praise, not things curse.  

 * Ask God to help you to see yourself the way He does.  When
   you do, you will love and accept yourself and others.

Cotcy: Krystal.

IT IS TIME

🔴 If you always have issues with almost everybody. It is time to pause and check youself

🔴 If you believe your friends should chat or call you first after a long period of exchanging pleasantries, it is time to understand the meaning of friendship

🔴 If you think nothing is working for you being alive. It is time to try being dead

🔴 If everything about you is me first. It is time to change your mindset

🔴 If you think what you believe is what everyone should believe. It is time to rethink it

🔴 If you always assume almost everything. It is time to know it is the lowest form of reasoning

🔴 If you think you are always correct. It is time to start checking google

🔴 If you think you are the best in anything. It is time to know the world’s population is over seven billion

🔴 If you think someone is poor because of laziness or lack of skills. It is time to know grace speaks louder than anything

🔴 If you think my writtings are nonesense. It is time to know you do not like to change for the better

Grace Makes the Difference Per Time

So just understand beyond what you had imagined, grace is not a game, it can not be competed for. Take it or leave it, we have got different races, just maturely run yours.

HOW TO BECOME BIG

There is an old saying that will remain valid for life, ‘Anything is possible’. Actually nothing is possible if steps are not taken, whatever happens anytime is due to an action that has been taken anywhere.

We lament some times/most times because of one thing or the other that is not favouring us, but many of these things can actually be conditioned to favour us, it is beyond religion. It is good to be optimistic but optimism will not make a tree grow if the seedling is not buried in the soil, little drops add to full a drum.

If you really want to be big,
1. BELIEVE IN BEGINNING
2. LEARN TO ADD UP
3. NEVER UNDERESTIMATE ANYTHING
4. INVEST NO MATTER HOW SMALL
5. SAVE, RAIN DOES NOT FALL EVERY SEASON
6. BUILD PEOPLE
7. BE INFORMED PER TIME

Stay Great!

SCHOOL ON YOUR FINGER TIPS

Learning is fun, it is life!

To be among the really living personalities on earth, the truth is you have to learn consistently.
Right at the comfort of your home, you can learn a whole lot of skills and even get certified.

These sets of skills will serve to improve your work flow as an existing business and will positively affect the profit mechanism which will ultimately show in fatter bank statements.

For people who are seeking to start out on a new learning path or are seeking new skills, the following websites will serve you well. There are tons of websites offering free courses in Web design, programming/coding, Data Science, Business development and Analytics, Graphics design, Film making, Textile Design etc

Gaining knowledge is definitely now cheaper than it used to be, take advantage and boost your business and career!

Some offer certificates of completion (some certs are free while others you pay a fee to receive it).


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Just maximize these and be at the top of your game.

KNOW THIS

Life is a bunch of anything you can think of, whatever comes around is what you have at hand, never take anything for nothing

Do not say you are jobless because you are not making money, only making money is not what you need, plan and write them down for every aspect of your life, when money comes you do not have to rush

When preparation meets with opportunity you soar beyond normal limits, proactiveness goes a long way in life

Nobody is less when they do not take themselves so. After now there will be a story, just imagine what the story will be if you do not do anything today!

SWITCH

Whatever it is, life goes on. Time has never and will ever pity anyone, depending on choices, there is ample of time here to be maximized.

After everything has been said and done, time will remain. Whatever is done per time will speak at different times later.

There is always an opportunity in every encounter no matter how little they might seem, something can be done anywhere and anytime.

To migrate from one phase to another, the SWITCH has to be engaged. Better experience does not happen on a stand still, it happens when something is being done. No excuses!

NUGGETS FOR YOU

Everything around you will go into extinct someday, why bother too much on what you can not control.

The truth is nobody deserves anything, whatever you get is a privilege, be indebted for it.

No matter how long or short it is, everybody will die. Maximize the space you have got.

Give your strength to what will benefit all, at the end you will love yourself for this.

Never become what they want, become who you need to be, it will give a real meaning to your life.

Your Identity

For everything in life, there is a name, a reason for their existence, for analogy, you can not differentiate the truck from carrying loads.

You are not what anybody think of you, you are what you are not because of what has happened to you. Write your nomenclature not because of imitation but because of what you are meant to be.

The circumstances around you will not determine you only if are conscious of that, you determine your life by what you allow and otherwise.

Never allow you or anyone take you for less, rise from the valley and make a reasonable meaning with your personality.

Worst step

The worst step you can take in life is never to grow.

No matter the pace, just ensure your mobility is intact

Do something for yourself and someone around you per day