The truth is, as our faces are different so is everything about us, never try waste your time bothering on things you may or can not change
Nobody is actually anything, everybody is truly something, we are so much the same, but grace has acted in different times for every individual
So just understand beyond what you had imagined, grace is not a game, it can not be competed for. Take it or leave it, we have got different races, just maturely run yours.