For everything in life, there is a name, a reason for their existence, for analogy, you can not differentiate the truck from carrying loads.
You are not what anybody think of you, you are what you are not because of what has happened to you. Write your nomenclature not because of imitation but because of what you are meant to be.
The circumstances around you will not determine you only if are conscious of that, you determine your life by what you allow and otherwise.
Never allow you or anyone take you for less, rise from the valley and make a reasonable meaning with your personality.